{"id":13471,"date":"2024-03-30T10:41:10","date_gmt":"2024-03-30T10:41:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.talkwithrattan.com\/index.php\/2024\/03\/30\/in-praise-of-tiny-triumphs\/"},"modified":"2024-03-30T10:41:10","modified_gmt":"2024-03-30T10:41:10","slug":"in-praise-of-tiny-triumphs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/news.talkwithrattan.com\/index.php\/2024\/03\/30\/in-praise-of-tiny-triumphs\/","title":{"rendered":"In Praise of Tiny Triumphs"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"text-align:center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/static01.nyt.com\/images\/2022\/03\/16\/reader-center\/author-desiree-ibekwe\/author-desiree-ibekwe-thumbLarge-v3.png?resize=150,150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-post-thumbnail size-post-thumbnail wp-post-image\" alt=\"In Praise of Tiny Triumphs\" title=\"In Praise of Tiny Triumphs\" \/><\/div><p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Spring arrives, and with it, a semi-annoying, semi-invigorating mandate to spring clean \u2014 to clear out spaces both physical and psychological. Because I am constantly looking for reasons to get rid of old things, old ways of thinking and being that have outstayed their usefulness, I\u2019m drawn to spring cleaning as an annual rite.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">But because I am also constantly reckoning with a pesky sense of dread regarding obligations of any size, I also find the concept of spring cleaning over-ambitious and intimidating. On days when routine chores like going to the post office or separating the laundry feel like punishments, the project of vacuum-sealing sweaters in mothproof storage bags seems unfeasible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">A friend was telling me about readying for a twice-a-year neighborhood yard sale, how she had begun decluttering in anticipation of the event. I felt a mix of excitement (it\u2019s that time of year again!) and panic (it\u2019s that time of year and, once again, I have waited too long to call the accountant!). Then she mentioned how accomplished she felt after sewing a button on a shirt to ready it for the sale.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">I started thinking about those tiny things we put off, the little tasks that aren\u2019t necessarily arduous, but for whatever reason \u2014 they\u2019re not part of our regular routines, we don\u2019t have to do them to function \u2014 we procrastinate getting done. When we actually do them, the sense of relief we experience is almost transcendent.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Take sewing a button on a shirt. Yes, the shirt has been out of commission for four years, but it\u2019s OK, you rationalized, you have other shirts and always more pressing things to do. But when you actually sit down and sew the stupid button, you feel an outsize sense of achievement that\u2019s totally disproportionate to the effort and time expended. Look at your handiwork! And now you have another shirt!<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">I started making a list of these tasks, the endlessly put-off, tiny things that occupy space at the bottom of the mind\u2019s running to-do list. Shining shoes. Repotting plants. Sharpening knives. Getting the car washed. I made chicken stock recently from scraps that had been sitting in the freezer for months. I felt a sense of accomplishment that I can only compare to what someone might experience after lifting a car off a trapped child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">It can be a sort of game, thinking of these little annoying tasks and then addressing them, seeing how much asymmetrical relief you can rack up from relatively minor exertion. You might find yourself so energized that you\u2019re up to contemplate some version of spring cleaning. Maybe not a total closet overhaul, but, say, one quick \u201c<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2014\/10\/23\/garden\/home-organization-advice-from-marie-kondo.html\" title=\"\">does this spark joy<\/a>\u201d pass over your winter wardrobe. Who knows what you\u2019ll be capable of with the confidence accrued from checking off these items. You might even make an appointment with the tax accountant. (Or just gather your paperwork and throw it in a folder \u2014 take it slow, no need to do anything crazy.)<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"css-9ycfei eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-3c1c6048\">For more<\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"css-1uuxri4 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-1439ed98\"><span><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">THE WEEK IN CULTURE<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"css-9w1fbe e6idgb70\">Music<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<ul class=\"css-1le37cb ez3869y0\">\n<li class=\"css-1i3ul0c eoqvrfo0\">\n<p class=\"css-1il0jfh evys1bk0\">The Biden administration announced pollution rules meant to <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/29\/climate\/epa-trucks-emissions-regulation.html\" title=\"\">increase sales of electric or other zero-emission heavy vehicles<\/a>, like school buses, ambulances and R.V.s.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"css-1i3ul0c eoqvrfo0\">\n<p class=\"css-1il0jfh evys1bk0\">With inflation still running slightly above the Federal Reserve\u2019s 2 percent target, Jerome Powell, the Fed chair, said he was in <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/29\/business\/economy\/federal-reserve-jerome-powell-interest-rates.html\" title=\"\">no hurry to cut interest rates<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"css-1i3ul0c eoqvrfo0\">\n<p class=\"css-1il0jfh evys1bk0\">Germany is Israel\u2019s second-largest arms supplier and sees supporting it as a way to atone for the Holocaust. But as deaths mount in Gaza, German officials <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/29\/world\/europe\/germany-israel-gaza.html\" title=\"\">have begun to change their tone<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"css-1i3ul0c eoqvrfo0\">\n<p class=\"css-1il0jfh evys1bk0\">A federal judge ordered New Jersey to <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/29\/nyregion\/new-jersey-election-ballot-challenge.html\" title=\"\">redesign its primary election ballot<\/a>. Andy Kim, a Democrat running for U.S. Senate, had challenged the old design, which gave preferential placement to local leaders\u2019 preferred candidates.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"css-1i3ul0c eoqvrfo0\">\n<p class=\"css-1il0jfh evys1bk0\">The F.D.A. warned that Impella heart pumps, which are used as temporary implants, have been <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/29\/health\/fda-heart-pump-fatalities.html\" title=\"\">linked to 49 deaths and dozens of injuries<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"css-1uuxri4 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-60445437\"><span><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">CULTURE CALENDAR<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<div class=\"css-zera2v\">\n<div class=\"css-103l8m3\">\n<div class=\"css-1u5onbp epjyd6m1\">\n<div class=\"css-165eim7 ey68jwv0\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/by\/desiree-ibekwe\" class=\"css-uwwqev\"><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">\ud83c\udfa5 Monkey Man (Friday): <\/strong>For many, Dev Patel\u2019s breakout role was as Jamal Malik in Danny Boyle\u2019s Oscar-winning movie \u201cSlumdog Millionaire.\u201d I was first introduced to him \u2014 as many other British kids were \u2014 in \u201cSkins,\u201d a teen drama that was big on sex and drugs. (It was kind of a progenitor of HBO\u2019s \u201cEuphoria.\u201d)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Now, Patel has turned action star in \u201c<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/variety.com\/2024\/film\/reviews\/monkey-man-review-dev-patel-1235939457\/\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Monkey Man<\/a>,\u201d which he also wrote and directed. He plays Kid, a boxer who competes in an underworld street fighting club set in a fictional Indian city.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"css-1uuxri4 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-63067b6e\"><span><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">RECIPE OF THE WEEK<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<h2 class=\"css-9ycfei eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-4f28d67a\">Easter Egg Nest Cake<\/h2>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Easter is on Sunday, and if you\u2019re looking for a dessert to bolster the Easter Bunny\u2019s sugary offerings, you can\u2019t do better than Nigella Lawson\u2019s playful <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/cooking.nytimes.com\/recipes\/1018669-easter-egg-nest-cake\" title=\"\">Easter egg nest cake<\/a>. This beloved recipe from the New York Times Cooking archives consists of a deeply fudgy, flourless cake with a top that puffs dramatically in the oven \u2014 only to sink as it cools. But that\u2019s a good thing: The resulting crater makes a perfect nest to be filled with chocolate whipped cream and colorful candy Easter eggs. It\u2019s easy to make, too, and keeps well if you want to bake it today to serve tomorrow. Just don\u2019t top with the candy eggs until just before serving \u2014 or, you know, after the Easter Bunny drops them off.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"css-1uuxri4 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-20a8f964\"><span><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">REAL ESTATE<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">The hunt: <\/strong>After seven years in a one-bedroom apartment in Washington Heights, a couple decided to move to the Upper West Side with a budget of $1.5 million. Which home did they choose? <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/interactive\/2024\/03\/28\/realestate\/upper-west-side-prewar-apartment.html\" title=\"\">Play our game<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">What you get for $750,000: <\/strong>A converted schoolhouse in Phoenixville, Pa.; a one-bedroom condo in Portland, Maine; or <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/27\/realestate\/750000-dollar-homes-pennsylvania-maine-louisiana.html\" title=\"\">a two-story house in New Orleans<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Diamond in the rough: <\/strong><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/28\/style\/divorce-ring-wedding-emrata.html\" title=\"\">\u201cDivorce rings,\u201d<\/a> which signal a new beginning after a marriage ends, are having a moment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">A bursting bubble? <\/strong>The <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/27\/style\/ecommerce-luxury-farfetch-matchesfashion.html\" title=\"\">future of luxury e-commerce<\/a> looks uncertain after the implosions of Farfetch and MatchesFashion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Members club mania: <\/strong><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/03\/29\/realestate\/nyc-private-clubs.html\" title=\"\">Private clubs are proliferating<\/a> in New York. Some city residents belong to more than one.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"css-1uuxri4 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-2a884c79\"><span><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">ADVICE FROM WIRECUTTER<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h2 class=\"css-9ycfei eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-b12e8d9\">The case for always checking a suitcase<\/h2>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">It\u2019s a source of pride among some travelers to never check a bag. But a carry-on bag crammed with an entire trip\u2019s worth of stuff can weigh us down as we meander around the terminal and make competitors of our fellow passengers for overhead space. As Wirecutter\u2019s travel expert, allow me to suggest a better way: Check every bag, eagerly and with joy. I\u2019ve floated through airports with nothing but a phone, headphones and a passport, and it feels, every time, transcendent. Start by investing in a great suitcase \u2014 like the sleek and durable one we recommend in <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/wirecutter\/reviews\/best-checked-luggage\/\" title=\"\">our guide to the best luggage for checking<\/a>. If you\u2019re facing lost-bag anxiety, consider keeping tabs with <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/wirecutter\/blog\/best-luggage-tracker-apple-airtag\/\" title=\"\">a luggage tracker<\/a>. Then: Be free. <em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">\u2014 Kit Dillon<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Connecticut vs. Illinois, N.C.A.A. tournament:<\/strong> The two best offenses in men\u2019s basketball collide in the Elite Eight. UConn, last year\u2019s champion, tore through the first three rounds of the tournament, beating opponents by almost 30 points a game. They have looked like the best team in the field. But they haven\u2019t yet faced an offensive threat like Illinois\u2019s Terrence Shannon Jr., a 6-foot-6 guard who has scored at least 25 points in his last seven games. <em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">6 p.m. Eastern today on TBS<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"css-9ycfei eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-67095f00\">More on sports<\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"css-1uuxri4 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-c590adc\"><span><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">NOW TIME TO PLAY<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spring arrives, and with it, a semi-annoying, semi-invigorating mandate to spring clean \u2014 to clear out spaces both physical and psychological. Because I am constantly looking for reasons to get rid of old things, old ways of thinking and being that have outstayed their usefulness, I\u2019m drawn to spring cleaning as an annual rite. 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